Are labels good? Bad?
Well, IMO, they are kind of necessary.
I’ve got a food allergy. I read ingredients on food labels to make sure I don’t end up eating something I shouldn’t.
I don’t like messing with dry cleaning, so I check clothing tags to make sure it’s not labeled as DRY CLEAN ONLY.
I don’t really care for straight erotica, so if I see something tagged as straight erotica, I’m not very likely to read it. Nothing against straight erotica, it just doesn’t work for me, so I like it when erotica books are labeled as such.
Likewise, if I read a book labeled erotic romance, and it’s more straight erotica (ie: the plot is more on a sexual exploration, there is no HEA at the end, etc) I’m going to be irritated. I wanted a romance, I wasn’t given one, this is a problem.
I don’t much like westerns, so if I buy a book that has a romantic-suspense looking cover, blurb, etc and once I get into the book, I discover it’s actually a western, I’m going to be irritated.
I tend to write fairly steamy material, so if a reader who doesn’t like explicit language picks up one of my books, I want my books labeled as erotic romance/steamy/whatever, so people know what they are buying.
People like to know what they are getting. Especially when they shell out money.
Now I can understand why labels bug people. I don’t want to be known just for paranormal romance. Or just erotic romance. That’s too confining and I get bored, and I don’t want readers thinking everything I turn out is paranormal. One-those that don’t like paranormal may not pick my contemp stuff up, thinking it’s paranormal. Two-I don’t want somebody who prefers paranormal picking up a contemp and being disappointed.
Labels aren’t a bad thing. Constrictive labels can be.
But the labels are there for a reason. People aren’t going to be as inclined to buy your books in the future if they were looking for a X-subgenre of romance, bought a book that seemed to fit, and when they get into it, it’s actual Y-subgenre of romance. People like to know what they are buying. That’s why we have labels.